There are nights I wake up in the middle of a sentence I never started. My tongue remembers a name my mouth refuses to say. I sit at the edge of my bed, elbows to knees, and trace shadows on the floor like they’re maps to a place I never had the courage to go. Sometimes I think love is just muscle memory, your body turning back even when your mind has made peace. Or maybe that’s grief, I’m not sure. The two have started blending like colours in a storm, and I can’t tell whether I’m drowning in longing or being reborn by it.
There are people you never stop writing letters to, even when they’re not reading. People who haunt your poems not as ghosts, but as punctuation, showing up as commas when you try to move on, ellipses when you almost do, and a question mark every time you think you’ve stopped feeling. I laugh too loud now, like I’m trying to echo into a version of myself that once made someone feel safe. But it’s strange, isn’t it? How safety can feel like a shiver in your spine and danger can feel like coming home. I don’t trust what feels like comfort anymore.
I think I’ve been chasing the version of love I imagined before I ever knew what it was. Not the kind they sing about or the kind they leave you with in movies, but the kind that sits quietly in your throat when you’re pretending to be fine. The kind that slips out when you overexplain your silence or apologize for being too much. I’ve loved in metaphors and been left in parentheses. I’ve waited in doorways that were never mine to walk through. I’ve been both the echo and the mouth that started it all.
Someone once told me I romanticize everything about her. But tell me, what else do you do when reality doesn’t fit your heart? I’ve built cities out of glances and entire galaxies out of half-meant sentences, all for her. I’ve survived more on imagined tomorrows than remembered yesterdays.
I don’t know if I want to be loved or just understood. I don’t know if I’m healing or rehearsing. There’s a difference between moving on and pretending you have. I keep confusing the two.
So tell me, is this what you call the space in between being a hopeless romantic and a hopeful lover?
–aaditya
Aaditya Bajpai 